I agree wholeheartedly. Black folks have been using the term "pick me" forever. It's a "new" term because white people are starting to pick up on it now. A "pick me" is a woman who shames other women for being "promiscuous," dressing in revealing clothing, swearing, or other things seen as undesirable to MEN. These women will put down other women they deem as trashy to seem more desirable to men, hence "pick me." These women are usually more conservative or religious, and believe it is their job to present themselves most palatably to men. You just don't really know what you're talking about lol